Sunday, June 20, 2021

25 Random Things I've Learned As A Dad


It's Father's Day!! Since this is my first Father's Day I figured I'd share 25 things I have learned over the past 7 months.

1. The first time you hold your child. You truly understand love at first sight and how you can love one person more than life itself.

2. Also, the moment you hold them you realize your #1 job in life from that point is to provide and protect them.

3. When the baby sleeps and you decide to clean up or do some tasks. Every freaking thing in the house makes some type of noise your scared will wake them up. Closing the refrigator, opening something...hell just walking.

4. Babies really run the show, they'll let you know what they do and don't like from day one. Something as simple as the shape of the bottle you give them.

5. There are days you're not sure if your coming or going and that's OK.

6. Somedays between tending to the baby, work, or other tasks. You stop and realize damn I haven't ate yet.

7. Babies love to climb on and assault you.

8. Gift cards to door dash, uber, and restaurants are clutch because there will be many days you don't feel like cooking. Especially that first month.

9. It's a great feeling to see them grow and develop as time passes, but boy are they exhausting.

10. When friends and family "check on you" they're really asking how the baby is doing...it's OK though.

11. Don't underestimate the power of a nap...for YOU.

12. Matter of fact take a nap when they take one.

13. Driving becomes a different type of nuisance because in the back of your mind you've already warned every other driver if they try some dumb shit they'll catch an ass whipping.

14. Kids are fickle. One day they want you to hold them all day and smile everytime they see you. The next day you breath near them and they cry for days.

15. Trial and error is the best and most humbling teacher.

16. Between diaper bags, wallet, keys, phone, and bottles....you will always feel like you are leaving something.

17. Calendar/To do list becomes your best friend.

18. You clean the house, blink and the house looks a mess again.

19. You become content with watching the same thing over and over again cause it keeps them calm.

20. You quickly learn the difference between whiny cry and something is wrong cry. You learn to tune out the whiny cry with no problem.

21. There will be days where its just you and the baby, and you can't wait for mom to get back. There are other days where ya'll have been bonding all day and you're like I got this she can stay out longer.

22. No need for toys, just give them paper to destroy.

23. When they lay on you and get comfortable...be prepared to be uncomfortable.

24. Can't help but smile when they do something you know is 100% you.

25.  It's A 24/7 job but all worth it. 

Friday, June 18, 2021

Underrated TV Dads

 

It’s Father’s Day Weekend and around this time you’ll see articles about the best TV dads. Frequent names that make the list are often familiar, like James Evans, Mike Brady, Cliff Huxtable (regardless of the man who played him transgressions), Phil Banks, Carl Winslow, Randall Pearson, Jack Pearson, Andy Griffith, and Richard Cunningham. Throughout the history of TV there have been several great dad characters, here is a list of ten underrated TV dads in my opinion.

10. Rome Howard-A Million Little Things



Since A Million Little Things is still on the air Rome’s story as a father isn’t over, but so far, he has done an exceptional job as a foster parent to Tyrell. Rome wanted nothing more to be a parent, in case you haven’t seen the show and want to I won’t give away too much. I will say though Tyrell came into Rome and his wife’s Regina lives at the right time. Rome has shown foster parents are just as important and influential as biological parents.

9. Alan Matthews-Boy Meets World


Alans Matthews wasn’t a hard-nosed dad by any stretch, but he was a realistic, likeable and caring dad. He worked hard to provide for his three kids. He even showed them that when your hard work isn’t appreciated, sometimes you have to step out and take a chance on yourself. Alan also took a role as a father figure for Corey’s best friend Shawn when he would need it the most.

8. Keith Mars-Veronica Mars


Veronica Mars overall is a very underrated and underappreciated show, think it had a lot to do with being ahead of it’s time and airing on UPN. That’s another story for another day, anyway Keith Mars is a very underrated dad. A county sheriff who later transitioned to a private investigator, he encouraged Veronica to use her sleuth skills for causes that were important. He always stressed to be safe and did everything he could to protect Veronica. Veronica’s mom left the family before the series started and it did a good job covering single dads and how hard it can be at times.

7. Graham Lubbock-Just The Ten Of Us

Just The Ten Of Us is a often forgotten sitcom that was a spin-off of Growing Pains. The series featured a high school basketball coach along with his wife raising their eight children. Four of them being teenage girls. Graham’s daughters also attended the school he coached at which gave him new headaches. He had to juggle catering to his wife, his children they’re varying personalities and needs. Budgeting for his family and so much more. Graham Lubbock does not get talked about enough in the land of TV dads.

6. Phillip Drummond-Diff'rent Strokes 

Phillip Drummond was the archetype of the white savior trope often used in television. That doesn't mean he wasn't a damn good dad though. Taking in his former housekeepers sons as her dying wish, he instantly took to the boys and raised them as his own. Providing them with love, care, and guidance as if they were his own. He also was stern when he needed to be, never letting the kids including his daughter get too mischievous.

5. Floyd Henderson-Smart Guy


Floyd Henderson often is overlooked when it comes to TV dads. That man had a lot on his plate, the widowed father of three kids. He juggled running a small roofing company, and three very different children with very different personalities. Child Genius TJ, popular but always looking to get rich quick Marcus, and activist daughter Yvette. Somehow Floyd kept it all together, always there for his children to help them in their time of need and provide advice.

4. Eddie Sutton-Lincoln Heights


Eddie Sutton is an LAPD police officer who moves his family into his old neighborhood hoping to make a difference. His family doesn’t initially approve of the move from their comfortable suburban home. Throughout the series, Eddie helps his family navigate through many challenges while navigating throughout challenges of his own. Always levelheaded and rarely losing his composure despite his stressful job and environment. Eddie Sutton is a very underrated TV dad much like the show is underrated.

3. Pops-The Wayans Bros.


Pops played by the legendary John Witherspoon was often a highlight of the Wayans Bros. He loved both his son’s and supported them every step of the way but was not afraid one bit to let them know they were being stupid etc. Pops also was known for his outlandish style which everyone made fun of, but he didn’t give a damn. He also felt his sons were never too old for an ass whipping and often pulled his belt out to beat two grown men.

2. Julius Rock-Everybody Hate's Chris


Julius Rock is probably the father many wouldn’t care to have as a child, but as an adult would appreciate. He’s one of the cheapest mofos you ever would want to meet but did what he had to do to support his wife and three kids. Working multiple jobs to make ends meet and counting every penny, he does not let a thing go to waste. He may not get you the things you want, but he will get you the things you need. At the end of the day when you look at what’s important that’s all that matters. 

1. Robert Peterson-Parent'Hood


Robert Peterson is a father of four who is a college professor. He is a caring but strict father and his imagination is just as vivid as any child. He often dreams of elaborate scenarios and stories in his head. A very good and caring man overall he took in a trouble youth and helped steer him towards a better path. Along with his wife they did the best they could to give their kids what they could without spoiling them rotten. Parent’Hood is an underrated sitcom and Robert Peterson is the most underrated TV dad in my opinion.