Thursday, December 27, 2018

Get Out Of Your Own Way


We're a few days away from a New Year. As often the case is when a new year is upon us, many people proclaim they will be a new person.New Year resolutions are made, goals are set, and then the new year hits. Most folks start off strong with this new change and then either nosedive or tail all the way off. After a while their back to the same shit they did the previous year and the year before that, and the year before that.

They fall back into the "old" them because of habits. Whether cognizant of it or not old habits are hard to break. Even when you know you need to stop doing certain habits to progress, that habit is so ingrained into who you are because you've being doing it so long. Well it's time to break that old habit completely.


The Saying "Can't Get Out Of Your Own Way" is a very true statement that resonates about how sometimes "being you", holds you back. In a career, relationships or life in general if a person "can't get out of their own way" and continues to do the same stuff. They'll end up in the same situations, never really progressing as individuals. Fully aware of whats holding them back, but not making a effort to address it and change for the better.

I know how hard habits are to break. I have several bad habits, some I know are  holding me back from progressing as an individual and different parts of my life. I'm making a pledge to start getting out of my own way, and work to break those habits. It's not a quick fix and it will be a struggle as some of the habits are ingrained in me. It's part of my personality and who I am, but I want to break away from being my own worst enemy. I encourage everyone who reads this to join me in 2019 not only in creating new resolutions or things we want to accomplish, but make strides to break old habits and get out of our way to prosperity. 

Thursday, December 20, 2018

WWE! Shake Things Up


After a few months of some abysmal Monday Night Raws, full of lackluster matches, illogical segments, characters fans were tried of and plenty more. Amid harsh criticisms from fans and sagging ratings, Vince McMahon and family decided to return to TV this past Monday to shake things up. Promising new stars, new match ups, and that fans were the authority they promised they heard the fans and things were going to change.

For now it looks like their sticking to truly making a change. I just finished a Fan Council survey from the WWE on changes I would like to see on the programming. For the most part they did the right things on Raw and Smackdown this week, we'll see if they stay true to their word going forward. For now here are three things I think could help the product and switch things up.

1. It's been the main crying point of fans for a few years now, make Brock Lesnar defend the damn universal championship. The Universal Championship only being defended 4 or 5 times a year severely devalues the championship and the wrestlers purpose of fighting for the top spot. If in the eyes of the McMahons Brock is a "special" attraction, and their willing to pay him millions of dollars to work a handful of times a year that's fine. However instead of making him the champion and letting the title disappear for months at a time. Use his special attraction status to build up some superstars who could use a rub from working with him. Much like many guys of the attitude era begin to move to the side for the ruthless aggression era guys, it's time Brock pays it forward and does the same. If he doesn't agree he can always make fighting in the UFC a full time job again.

2. The McMahons should really limit the amount of time they are on screen. We know their the owners of the WWE and they have been fixtures of WWE television for 20 years now, every one of them have flipped between face and heel authority figures and that path has been beaten to death now. In fact and this is not just limited to the WWE but authority figures in wrestling period really need to take a backseat. That character has been done to death and many times especially with the McMahons as authority figures they overshadow the superstars. Create one General Manager/Commissioner  type figure who works as a liaison of the McMahons who oversees both brands. Their sole purpose is to make appearance for special announcements and restore order when things seem to get out of hand.

3. I often try to avoid comparing the product today to the attitude era, they were two different time periods with different rosters and agendas. The attitude era was great for many reasons, and one often overlooked reason that the current era could really benefit from. Is during the attitude era if you were on TV, Raw, Smackdown, Sunday Night Heat it was for a purpose. There were the main angles featuring the likes of Stone Cold, The Rock, D-X etc. Then there were smaller angles that were just as important Jeff Jarrett berating women until Chyna came to the rescue, X-Pac humanizing Kane. Val Venis tryna keep his willy intact after sleeping with the wrong woman. They all served their purposes no matter how outlandish some of the stories were. People cared about the entire roster from top to bottom. With a influx of talent and the brand split there isn't much reason fans should not care somewhat about every single wrestler on the roster during Raw and Smackdown.

I'm just a fan offering my two cents on how WWE can improve their product. These are a few things I feel would make the product better. I'll continue to watch and suffer through some rough times and wait for the tide to turn. In the meantime maybe WWE will hire me, a guy can dream.



Friday, November 23, 2018

Creed II Themes

                         

Creed II released this week and despite some rumblings it wasn't as good as the first, it's a damn good movie. In fact it's a worthy sequel to the first Creed and fits in perfectly in the overall Rocky series of films. This article is not a review of Creed but my observation watching it. It's not spoilerish but some parts may be interpreted that way.

If you've never seen any of the Rocky movies besides the first Creed this film will pique your interest. If you've only seen Creed, Rocky IV, and Rocky Balboa then you'll understand the history referenced in Creed II perfectly. One of the themes of Creed II is redemption and rebuilding oneself. A very relatable theme in itself, the primary theme is even more relatable to alot of people.


The primary theme of Creed II is that of father and son relationships.
No parent is perfect in their job of raising a kid,
it's a tough gig.
Love is expressed in different ways, and a child's parental legacy doesn't have to be their own.


Adonis spent the first Creed trying to find himself. He longed to have known his father
but also aimed to distance himself from the Creed name.
In the sequel some of those feelings still harbor.
While not completely closing the chapter on his father's death, he’s getting ready to become a father.
One thing I personally would have liked to seen would have been one of Adonis older siblings talking to him about Apollo as a father
(Apollo had two young kids in Rocky II).
This father and son relationship is one of a boy growing into a man never knowing his father.
Yet he still wants to make his father proud of him.


Rocky is still estranged from his son Robert, but Adonis is his surrogate son.
Being around Adonis and realizing age is catching up to him,
Rocky realizes he's alone in the world besides Adonis and wishes he and his son were closer.
Rocky V and Rocky Balboa provides great context to what possibly led to this relationship souring.
This father and son relationship is one of making amends and repairing things before It's too late.

Ivan Drago the man who killed Apollo in the ring has trained his son Viktor since birth to be a brute force of evil.
He lives vicariously through Viktor and shows him nothing but tough love.
Often making you wonder if Viktor actually hates his father.
Despite being rough Ivan displays some fatherly characteristics in his own brute way.
This father and son relationship is one of a father trying to make his son into something he wasn't,
either a better man or a better fighter. Selfish or not it's for a better life.

The father and son theme is a universal theme that reaches across generations.
It teaches let the past be the past,
be inspired by your parents legacy but set out to create your own.
If there isnt a Creed III, this film nicely completes part of Adonis story
and successfully bookends the entire Rocky film series.
If there is a Creed III hopefully it shows Adonis cementing his legacy
but for now  enjoy the film and appreciate the message.




Wednesday, November 21, 2018

Two "New Days" in Baltimore



This past week Baltimore aimed to proclaim a "New Day" in two ways. Baltimore's Mayor Catherine Pugh selected a new police commissioner Joel Fitzgerald, the fourth police commissioner in five years. Meanwhile in the sports world the Oriole's bought on a new general manager Mike Elias from the Houston Astros who played a great deal in their resurgence. Both men seem qualified in their respective positions and have a mountain of work ahead of them,

Joel Fitzgerald is coming from Fort. Worth, TX as the police chief there to take the position. He has already proclaimed he is coming to "help heal the city" and is very aware of the task in front of him. A disheartening stubborn murder rate, reported low morale among the men and women in blue. Trust issues between the police department and the community it serves, and a federal mandate to reform the department and some of it's practices. Hopefully he's the man to help change things.

Mike Elias who was an assistant GM in the Astros organization, is a man many are hoping will spearhead the effort to bring a World Series championship back to Baltimore. Coming off a horrible 115 lost season, he has to find a new manager and coaching staff, rebuild the farm system which has been in disarray for years. Take a look at the current roster which has a few valuable trade chips but not many, and expand the organizations footprint in Latin America which it is severely behind other clubs on. He has made the statement his goal is to build "an elite talent pipeline". The Orioles cant develop pitchers let alone many impact players for any position, hopefully he stays true to his word and is here to change that.

While both men have two completely different jobs that have different effects on peoples lives. They both have a steep hill to climb and both deserve a chance to turn things around. Along with being the man in charge there is something else they will need....help. These reforms won't be successful without a good support system around both gentlemen.

Baltimore did not get the crime rate it's known for overnight. It's an result of decades of neglect, systematic policies that hurt citizens as opposed to helping, carelessness, sense of hoplessness and a "not our problem" mentality. For Joel Fitzgerald and the police department to truly turn things around for the long haul, it's going to require a lot of help from the local government, state government, and community. A way to keep repeat offenders off the streets and mean it, reach out to troubled youth and steer them in the right direction before it's too late, bring more jobs to the city. Bring the school system up to date to engage kids who have more then enough distractions. Making sure the police department is well staffed and equipped for the job, and has the resources needed to get the job done.

The Orioles had a brief renaissance, but still did not address organization wide issues that plagued them for years and proved to be a culprit in their massive downfall. Elias has already began building his team by bringing analytics guru Sig Mejdal over as assistant GM with him from the Astros. One of the most important positions in my opinion is finding a qualified person who can finally develop some quality pitchers like the O's were known for back in the 60's and 70's. Taking nothing from Andy Macphail, Buck Showalter, or Dan Duquette but truly bringing back the Oriole Way throughout the entire organization. Bringing the organization into the 21st century is a career at this point. And Mike Elias will have to surround himself with the right people to make it happen in a time frame fans will accept.

Personally I hope both men are true agents of change. I also hope they are allowed to think outside the box and be innovative with how they approach change. Obviously what's going on in the police department and the Orioles isn't working, so new ideas need to be bought in. Let's give them a shot and hope the crime rate goes down to historic lows in a few years and stays that way, let's hope the Orioles finally bring that championship home. In both ways it'll heal the city. 
 a mountain of work ahead of them.
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Sunday, October 28, 2018

It's Ok To See The World


                         




  It’s been a couple weeks since my vacation in Paris. In talking with various people about my experience over there, it made me think about something I would like to encourage more people to do. That’s traveling and seeing the world, not being afraid of stepping outside their comfort zone.  I remember once I was about 14 years old, and I was talking to my grandfather about a family vacation we had just taken. A buddy of his mentioned that he was 50 and had never been outside Baltimore. That stuck with me and made me realize first I was lucky to had been the few places I’d been at the time, and second there were more places I needed to see.

  I’ve been blessed to at least take one vacation somewhere for the past seven years. Early in my traveling escapades people would often ask me where I was going, if the answer wasn’t Atlanta, Miami, or maybe Vegas the follow up question was “Why you going there”? A few things, one that's a annoying ass question. Second while those are great places to visit, there is so much more this country and the world has to offer. Now that I'm off my rant.. My answer was always because I wanted to see what it’s like there.

   We have to get out that “why you going there?” mentality and look for reasons to get out into the world. Look beyond your neighborhood or even your city, don’t confine yourself to that small reality. Don’t listen to your friends who may clown you for wanting to go somewhere, or say they don’t have a desire to go anywhere...word of advice their a damn liar. Everyone wants to visit someplace other than where they live, unless they honestly don’t know any better.





If financially traveling is not an option at the moment, that’s fine just set a goal that one day you will get where you want to go, and that day will come.
Want to travel but unsure of how to start, ask friends or family who have traveled or may know a travel agent.
Not sure where to go? Research festivals or conventions of things that interest you and build your trip around that. Kill two birds with one stone.
Research different monuments, art museums, science, music, or history museums trust me Google is your friend. 
A little apprehensive about traveling far? That’s fine start small and take a road trip to a neighboring city.
Like a particular professional team? Follow them to a different city and catch their game there.
Want to visit a island but don’t think your ready to leave the country?
No worries visit Puerto Rico or one of the U.S. Virgin Islands so you're still under U.S. governance. 
These small steps will broaden your horizons to want to branch out more.
I always encourage going places with a open mind, think negatively about your trip and you won’t enjoy it from jump.




Traveling is not only a time to refresh from the daily grind, it’s also a time to experience new things.
New cultures, new food, things you normally wouldn’t do in your day to day life.
 Interact with different types of people you would never talk to on the daily. Hell you may make some life changing connections.  It’ll also make you realize how everyone perceives where they live and how everyone else lives.
 I’ve met so many people who actually have said they want to visit Baltimore one day.
I’ve also met people who have said don’t waste your time coming there, when I mention I wanted to visit their city one day.
Traveling can be a rewarding experience that makes you appreciate what you have, and know there’s more out there.
It slowly becomes a addiction as you try new things.
It also makes you realize It’s OK to be cultured no matter how “uncool” it may seem to some.I implore everyone to give it a try.

Thursday, October 18, 2018

Jet Set Adventure


                                                         





   I recently was  blessed to take a trip to Paris. I’ve been out of the country before, but this was my first time outside of North America. It was a fun, eye-opening experience that made me realize how different cultures are, but yet are still the same. I’ll break down three things that stood out to me about my trip to Paris.



The Culture

      One of the first things that stood out to me is the lap of luxury in Paris, soon as you step off the airplane and walk down the terminal you’re greeted with all the luxury stores you can think of. Gucci, Burberry, Fendi, Louie any luxury brand you can think of. Next thing Paris is just like New York City, being the fashion capital of the world and the capital of Paris it is crowded. Traffic is terrible, think the traffic of NYC, Washington D.C., and L.A. combined and that’s traffic in Paris. No wonder so many people walk, bike, or take public transportation.
     Fashion! Parisians take great pride in the way they look. For the most part they are very casual and low key, but you can tell they put a lot of thought in what they are going to wear. Their choice of attire is also very modest nothing that really brings attention to them.  Paris is known for access to a lot of great wine, but Parisians also love to smoke. I was shocked at the amount of Woman who smoke, and they smoke just about anywhere they can. They smoked so much I was curious if there are any anti-smoking campaigns in the country.            
      Hopping on the train especially during rush hour, be prepared to throw some elbows to get on the train. It quickly becomes a madhouse to make the train and feel like a can of sardines until your next stop. At the mall and need to use the restroom, be prepared to pay the cashier at the front desk to use the restroom.             Parisians enjoy their time with their families. A lot of stores and supermarkets are closed by 8:00 pm. When you’re finished eating at a restaurant, there is no rush to kick you out the wait staff politely checks on you periodically until you ask for the check.  
                                                                                                   
For the places that do open late, such as nightclubs Parisians know how to party.      





The Food
                          
    Some of the stereotypes ring true, cafes in Paris are plentiful and appear to be at every corner. Drinking their espresso and reading a book is in the norm in Paris. Cafes are such a big thing their McDonald’s have legit cafes in them, on par with Starbucks.    There are crepe stands everywhere just like we have hot dog stands everywhere.  This was my first time ever having crepes and they are quite good. Next to crepes their next sweet of choice is macaroons. 

    Parisians love their bread, often baked fresh daily. Bread comes with nearly every meal and there are plenty of sandwich options. There’s so much bread by day 2 of my trip I was on bread overload and was trying to avoid it as much as I could. There was one fast food place called “Quick” man their burgers gave McDonald’s a serious run for their money.     

   Their food does not contain as much “junk” such as artificial sweeteners, preservatives, etc. I bought a bag of potato chips and while crispy, crunchy, and good it’s not as salty as chips in America. Their sodas do not contain as much carbonation and fizz. Even their ground beef doesn’t wear you down like it does here. Portion sizes are small but enough to fill someone up, especially if a lot of walking will be done.
                                                                                            
    Supermarkets offer stands where shoppers can squeeze their own oranges for fresh orange juice. Other than bacon, pork isn’t really an option on their menu(s). Paris has a strong Asian population which was a shocker to me. That meant there were plenty of Pho spots and Japanese restaurants around.                 
                                                                                                
   The lack of junk in their food in addition to walking, means a lot of Parisians aren’t obese. Without getting too political, and knowing the obvious answer it makes me annoyed as to why the U.S. government refuses to really regulate how much artificial crap is really put into our food.

History

       Paris has a lot of history. A lot of things I now have the privilege to say that I have seen in person and inspired me to see more of the world. The Palace of Versailles which was the home of the French Royals, the various King Louis's during their respective reigns. A massive castle and landscape that was huge beyond words, makes you wonder what someone could possibly do with all that land.                                                                       
     The world famous Louvre which is the world’s largest art museum. Which contained the original painting of the Mona Lisa painting. Being able to have dinner inside the Eiffel Tower and see it in person and how tall it really is was awe inspiring. The Notre Dame church where I didn’t find Quasimodo, waiting to ring the bell. The Arc de Triomphe which is busy as hell, good luck trying to play in that traffic. Narrow alleys with cobblestone pathways. Buildings that have stood for thousands of years, just the entire history of the city. There was even more places to see that I didn’t get a chance to.



        I highly recommend that if you can, get out there and see the world. From other countries versions of ghettos, to where the royals reside or use to reside. There is so much out there to see, and will make you appreciate what you have at home, or figure out how to make things better for quality of life no matter how big or small the initiative is. This trip was truly eye opening for me on just how much is out there, and I can't wait til my next excursion around the world. 
                                                                                                 

Sunday, September 30, 2018

Too much emphasis on Coaches?




The Orioles abysmal season of 47-115 has come to an end. With half the roster gutted during the midseason trade deadline,
Adam Jones likely playing his last game as an Oriole. Buck Showalter and Dan Duquette statuses up in the air, with one likely done or both.
  Often when teams collapse like the Orioles did, someone has to be the sacrificial lamb and that often is the manager.
Hired to lead the team managers get all the praise and all the blame depending on which way the wind blows.
When managers are released the reason often given is their “message” has gotten stale.
  While it may be true that after so many years especially on teams with veteran players, they may get tired of hearing the same thing.
The philosophy of the coach may sound like a parent repeating themselves.
Or as the generation gap widens between coaches and players, they may find they cant relate to the players.
  Now for all of the blame managers get when things go south real fast, there's one tangible managers don't do. That's play on the field and produce. At the end of the day if a team is not equipped with stars who produce, they may not get very far.      
 Coaches defined as the greatest ever often had power players on their team, that’s not to take away from their style or philosophy. At the end of the day their style and a roster of play makers made for good managers.
The Bill Belichick's of the world, Bill Parcells, Phil Jackson, Joe Torre, Pat Riley, John Madden, Vince Lombardi and so many more. Yes their great coaches but put them with a D league roster and let’s see how far their philosophy will take them.

          That raises a question, is too much emphasis placed on head coaches or not enough emphasis? Yes their paid millions of dollars to lead the team, but their also field generals. Often not having much say in decision making and one way or another being told to get it done with what they have. Come of think of it their often given directives that regular folks experience just making way less money.  Coaches can raise trophies or head home into oblivion, either way I think the amount of emphasis placed on head coaches is sometimes unfairly just right or wrong.